Stardew Valley Sebastian gifts, schedules, and marriage

Everything you need to know about Stardew Valley’s Sebastian

Sebastian standing on a dock

In Stardew Valley, Sebastian is a rebel who lives in his parents’ basement just north of Pelican Town in the mountains. He loves videogames, comic books, and sci-fi novels, though he has been known to hide away from the world and become deeply absorbed in his hobbies.

For those of you out there who dream about someday marrying this rebellious villager, you may need a little help. So here we are to fill you in on everything that Stardew Valley’s Sebastian loves, hates, and feels neutral about, as well as a detailed guide to his schedule, and how to marry him.

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What are Sebastian’s heart events?

Here’s everything you need to know about each of Sebastian’s heart events.

Two hearts

Go into Sebastian’s room when he’s home.

Four hearts

Venture to the mountain between 11:00-17:00

Six hearts

Go into Sebastian’s room when he’s home.

Eight hearts

Go to the bottom of the boardwalk on a rainy day between 12:00-23:00.

Ten hearts

Head to the mountain between 20:00-00:00.

Fourteen hearts

Head to the mountain between 06:00-19:00 on a rainy day.

Stardew Valley's Sebastian on a motorcycle

Stardew Valley Sebastian Gifts

What are Sebastian’s loves?

These are the best gifts to give Sebastian.

  • All universal loves
  • Frozen tear
  • Obsidian
  • Pumpkin soup
  • Sashimi
  • Void egg

What are Sebastian’s likes?

If you don’t have anything Sebastian loves to hand, feel free to give him any of the following items.

  • All artisan goods other than coffee, green tea, and oil
  • Every universal like other than complete breakfasts, farmer’s lunch, flowers, and omelettes
  • Flounder
  • Quartz

What is Sebastian neutral about?

Sebastian doesn’t feel any particular way about these items.

  • All fish other than carp, flounder, and snail
  • All fruit other than fruit tree fruit and salmonberry
  • All milk
  • All universal neutrals

What are Sebastian’s dislikes?

We advise against giving Sebastian these items.

  • All flowers other than poppies
  • All universal dislikes other than clay, fish, obsidian, and void eggs
  • Chanterelle
  • Common mushroom
  • Daffodil
  • Dandelion
  • Ginger
  • Hazelnut
  • Holly
  • Leek
  • Magma cap
  • Morel
  • Purple mushroom
  • Salmonberry
  • Snow yam
  • Wild horseradish
  • Winter root

What does Sebastian hate?

Definitely do not give Sebastian these items unless you’re looking to make an enemy.

  • All artisan goods other than coffee, green tea, and oil
  • All eggs other than void eggs
  • All universal hates
  • Clay
  • Complete breakfast
  • Farmer’s lunch
  • Omelette

Stardew Valley Sebastian schedule

Sebastian is a pretty shy shut-in, and often doesn’t come out until it rains (unless he’s having a smoke, of course). Until you have enough hearts to enter his room, you’ll likely need to know where to find him. So here’s Sebastian’s schedule, and where to find him at all times.

Spring

11th (less than six hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (any hearts)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:00am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00pm: In his room, standing by couch.
  • 5:30pm: Leaving his room to go to the kitchen.
  • 6:30pm: On his computer.
  • 9:30pm: Goes to bed.

11th & 25th (six or more hearts with Sebastian)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

Rainy day (option one)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and leaves house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30pm: Standing at the end of long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00pm: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40pm: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy day (option two)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaving house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: At the Saloon, standing by red sofa in arcade.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Thursday (after unlocking railroad)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00pm: Leaving home to go smoke by train station.
  • 3:00pm: Smoking by the train station.
  • 6:20pm: Standing east of train station, by tunnel.
  • 8:10pm: Standing west of train station, by tunnel.
  • 9:30pm: Heads home.
  • 10:20pm: Arrives home.

Friday

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00am: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: In the Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00am: Leaves house to go to Sam’s house.
  • 11:30am: In front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
  • 12:30pm: Follows Sam to his room.
  • 1:00pm: In Sam’s room.
  • 6:00pm: Leaves Sam’s house with Sam and goes to the river.
  • 6:20pm: Smoking by the river outside Sam’s house with him.
  • 7:30pm: Going home from in front of Sam’s house.
  • 9:40pm: Arrives home.

Regular spring schedule

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

Summer

Summer 4th

  • 9:00am: In his room, by bookcase.
  • 10:00am: Leaving house to go to the clinic.
  • 11:50am: In the clinic’s waiting room.
  • 1:40pm: In the clinic’s examination room.
  • 4:00pm: Heads home.
  • 6:00pm: Arrives at his room and goes to bed.

11th (less than six hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (any hearts)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:00am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00pm: In his room, standing by couch.
  • 5:30pm: Leaving his room to go to the kitchen.
  • 6:30pm: On his computer.
  • 9:30pm: Goes to bed.

11th & 25th (six or more hearts with Sebastian)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

Rainy day (option one)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and leaves house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30pm: Standing at the end of long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00pm: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40pm: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy day (option two)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaving house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: At the Saloon, standing by red sofa in arcade.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Thursday (after unlocking railroad)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00pm: Leaving home to go smoke by train station.
  • 3:00pm: Smoking by the train station.
  • 6:20pm: Standing east of train station, by tunnel.
  • 8:10pm: Standing west of train station, by tunnel.
  • 9:30pm: Heads home.
  • 10:20pm: Arrives home.

Friday

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: In the Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00am: Leaves house to go to Sam’s house.
  • 11:30am: In front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
  • 12:30pm: Follows Sam to his room.
  • 1:00pm: In Sam’s room.
  • 6:00pm: Leaves Sam’s house with Sam and goes to the river.
  • 6:20pm: Smoking by the river outside Sam’s house with him.
  • 7:30pm: Going home from in front of Sam’s house.
  • 9:40pm: Arrives home.

Regular summer schedule

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

Fall

11th (less than six hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (any hearts)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:00am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00pm: In his room, standing by couch.
  • 5:30pm: Leaving his room to go to the kitchen.
  • 6:30pm: On his computer.
  • 9:30pm: Goes to bed.

11th & 25th (six or more hearts with Sebastian)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

Rainy day (option one)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and leaves house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30pm: Standing at the end of long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00pm: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40pm: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy day (option two)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaving house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: At the Saloon, standing by red sofa in arcade.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Thursday (after unlocking railroad)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00pm: Leaving home to go smoke by train station.
  • 3:00pm: Smoking by the train station.
  • 6:20pm: Standing east of train station, by tunnel.
  • 8:10pm: Standing west of train station, by tunnel.
  • 9:30pm: Heads home.
  • 10:20pm: Arrives home.

Friday

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: In the Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00am: Leaves house to go to Sam’s house.
  • 11:30am: In front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
  • 12:30pm: Follows Sam to his room.
  • 1:00pm: In Sam’s room.
  • 6:00pm: Leaves Sam’s house with Sam and goes to the river.
  • 6:20pm: Smoking by the river outside Sam’s house with him.
  • 7:30pm: Going home from in front of Sam’s house.
  • 9:40pm: Arrives home.

Regular fall schedule

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house.
  • 2:00pm: Goes to the part of the lake outside the mines entrance.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves the mines entrance and heads to the other side of the lake.
  • 3:30pm: Is smoking at the edge of the lake close to the bridge.
  • 4:00pm: Returns home to his kitchen.
  • 5:30pm: Leaves his kitchen.
  • 6:00pm: On his computer.

Winter

Winter 16

  • 10:30am: Wakes up and goes to his computer
  • 3:00pm: Leaves room and goes to kitchen
  • 3:40pm: Goes back to room and returns to his computer
  • 5:00pm: Leaves his home to attend Night Market
  • 11:30pm: Leaves Night Market to return home

11th (less than six hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (any hearts)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:00am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00pm: In his room, standing by couch.
  • 5:30pm: Leaving his room to go to the kitchen.
  • 6:30pm: On his computer.
  • 9:30pm: Goes to bed.

11th & 25th (six or more hearts with Sebastian)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

Rainy day (option one)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and leaves house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30pm: Standing at the end of long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00pm: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40pm: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy day (option two)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaving house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: At the Saloon, standing by red sofa in arcade.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Thursday (after unlocking railroad)

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00pm: Leaving home to go smoke by train station.
  • 3:00pm: Smoking by the train station.
  • 6:20pm: Standing east of train station, by tunnel.
  • 8:10pm: Standing west of train station, by tunnel.
  • 9:30pm: Heads home.
  • 10:20pm: Arrives home.

Friday

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20pm: In the Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10pm: Heads home.
  • 11:10pm: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00am: Leaves house to go to Sam’s house.
  • 11:30am: In front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
  • 12:30pm: Follows Sam to his room.
  • 1:00pm: In Sam’s room.
  • 6:00pm: Leaves Sam’s house with Sam and goes to the river.
  • 6:20pm: Smoking by the river outside Sam’s house with him.
  • 7:30pm: Going home from in front of Sam’s house.
  • 9:40pm: Arrives home.

Regular winter schedule

  • 9:00am: In his bed.
  • 10:30am: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00pm: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:30pm: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10pm: On his computer.
  • 6:30pm: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30pm: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30pm: Goes back to his house.

A look into Sebastian's bedroom

Stardew Valley Sebastian marriage

As with all Stardew proposals, before you can get married you need to earn ten hearts of friendship with Sebastian, and have given him a bouquet from Pierre’s shop at eight hearts of friendship. You’ll also need to have upgraded your farmhouse at least once, and have access to the tide pool to the east of the beach.

You’ll then need to buy the mermaid’s pendant from the Old Mariner at the tide pool. He will only appear when it rains, and the pendant will cost you 5,000g. After you give this to Sebastian, you will get married three days after the proposal.

Once married, Sebastian will move into your farmhouse, setting up a room to the right of the master bedroom. He’ll also set up an area behind the house for his motorcycle, where he’ll occasionally work on it. He will sometimes offer you coffee, or gifts he found in the cave, and on New Years Eve he will give you a celebratory beer.

That’s everything you need to know about Stardew Valley’s Sebastian! For more content like this, take a look at our Stardew Valley Emily and Stardew Valley Shane guides.

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